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Sara Hammel's avatar

I'm shocked there are yet more victims coming forward. How did you all find your way here?

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I have decided to not use my real details. I am glad people are remaining anonymous as I don’t want to post under my own name. Sorry guys. What nightmare. All these horrible things that Sten did and I feel very fortunate VERY fortunate to have escaped relatively unscathed. I was 16 and working near the airport, Sten used to come in and we got to chatting. His asked me about my Scottish accent, I told him I wanted to be a FA, loved horror films. The usual mundane stuff. He invited me to see a screening of The Texas Chainsaw Massacre in 2000, so I went along because I thought he was hot. He was a strange ranger. On the way there he played love songs in the car, told me he was a very “passionate” person, he had a female relative who had been “brutally” raped which made him “uniquely attuned” to the suffering of women. He played Kate Bush Wuthering Heights, told me he felt like “the dark and brooding” Heathcliff and loved literature. At the cinema he told me to pretend I was 20 if people asked and that we were boyfriend and girlfriend. During the film he initially touched my hand, then squeezed my hand, arm, shoulder, then leg. Then told me to sit on his lap during the film as it was “getting scary”. He put his hand on my private area and touched me there for the final 20 minutes or so of the film. He never looked at me but kept his head forward watching the screen. He pulled me back into him and whispered it’s ok over and over as if comforting me because we were watching a horror film. He drove me home, acted like nothing had happened. I never told anyone what he did because I felt dirty, disgusting and embarrassed. But the shame is all yours, isn’t it Sten?

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